Child success is more dependent on his parents then themselves, in other words the success and failures of children are decided by their parents rather than themselves. If you want to raise your children in a way that they become successful then you should do the following things:
1) Praise your children but don’t praise them too much, they should feel that you have trust on them and you expect from them but don’t make them feel that they can’t lose or lag behind.
2) Judge children from their efforts rather than from their intelligence it will make motivate them to increase their efforts rather than being satisfied by their sharper mind.
3) Become a role model for your children so that they may have someone to whom they may look for mentoring.
4) Praise their failures so that they may be motivated to work harder resulting in increased efforts.