Successful marriage is very necessary for a successful life that’s why Imam Hanbal gave 10 advices to his son on his wedding day. Such advices are very important for a married couple to lead a happy life. These 10 advices are:
- Women like attention so never ignore your wife and give her attention so that she feels to be important in your life.
- Don’t be afraid to show your love for your wife because if you don’t show your love the affection will be decreased.
- Women hate strict man but they use soft vulnerable man so neither be strict nor be soft.
- They expect what you expect from them, i.e. good looks, good words, clean clothes & pleasant odour.
- House is the kingdom of woman, your wife is the Queen, never try to dethrone her or challenge her authority because it makes Queen angry.
- Never put your wife in a situation to chose between you and her family because even if she chooses you she will hate you.
- Women were created from a curved rib and this is her attraction and beauty so never be harsh on her defect or mistake as it will break the rib, but leaving her without any advice will increase her crookedness.
- Women are usually ungrateful to husbands for their favor so never dislike her for this as there are other characteristics and habits which will please you.
- During certain period of time Allah has relieved women from worship and other obligations so be nice to them during these days by decreasing your requests and instructions.
- Woman is like a captive with you so show mercy to her.
November 7, 2017