Getting married is one of the life changing events in your entire life. In other words it is a new start, but do you know what are the most common things that Pakistani girls do when the date of marriage is fixed?
Wedding Dress:
Priorities may differ but the most important thing for a desi girl is to choose her wedding dress. Selecting the colour, the designer and the design is not an easy task especially when the whole family is giving their input.
Cooking:
In past years girls started cooking at a young age but nowadays most girls take cooking seriously only after they are getting married. Some start taking classes, other watch tutorials online and some asks their moms and sisters to help them.
Their aim during this short period is to learn to cook the favourite dish of their future husband.
Learning Adab:
The way we behave with our friends and siblings is not the way we should behave with our in laws, this will be the first thing that your mother will tell you after you find your life partner.
She will tell you how to respect the elders, how to treat the children and how to fit in a family different than the one she lived in. Hearing the same thing will be annoying but itβs part of the protocol desi mom follows π
Makeup:
Choosing the makeup artist is not an easy task for a girl, she interviews dozens of cousins and skims photographs of different marriages to find the best makeup artist. Others may trust a band name which has become a norm in big cities.
This is how stylish girls react but for simple girls who never liked makeup finding the right makeup artist is even a more complex thing.
Saying Good Bye to Your Old Clothes:
That’s how i make space for new clothes on eid and wedding π pic.twitter.com/9VP34hxUSB
β Faryal Najeeb (@FaryalNajeeb_) June 13, 2018
Marriage not only changes your relationship status but it also changes your clothing style. After marriage most girls prefer to wear traditional dresses.
Planning Your Wedding To Be Different:
Every girl wants to make her wedding different and memorable for which the whole family plans for days. You plan the wedding events & select the best photographer to have the best shaadi photo shoot.
Decorating Your Home & Room:
This is where the brother helps you most, from beautiful colourful ribbons and decoration of rooms to illuminating the house through lighting. Different decorators offer these services through which the wedding house becomes identical even from a very long distance.
Dreaming About Husband:
Dreaming about your future husband, wasting hours on bed in making up stories and thinking how your life will be after marriage.
There are other things which many girls follow such as changing your mobile number so that no male from class will call you & changing the privacy of your Facebook profile.