Many people ask question that whether we should marry the one whom we love or we should love the one with whom we are getting married. In reality it is an invalid question because if you love someone you will marry him or her.
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said: “We do not think that there is anything better for those who love one another than marriage.” (Ibn Maajah, 1847)
Sheikh Saalih explains that if any man or woman likes and someone he will get married, he will not transgress the ahkam of Allah and he will not go against the teachings of Prophet (PBUH).
While the modern concept of love by west is that in which man and woman have haram relationship for months and years without getting married, when they break up the woman gets no rights for her or for her children.
While in Islam woman get all her rights including getting financial assistance for herself and her children even after divorce.