One of the most important events in the life of desi & Pakistani girls is marriage, but do you know the difference between their expectations and reality?
Usually the expectations are too high because girls expect marriage to be same as Bollywood and Hollywood movies which they watch, but reality is far different from it.
The first expectation about marriage of a desi girl is shattered when she realizes that her wedding will be arranged. Though in recent years this trend is declining but it is still widespread.
Many desi girls believe that women who always ask them question about their ‘shaadi’ will now leave them, but in reality the still haunt them with their new questions such as when you are expecting a child?
After seeing photographs and pictures on internet desi bride and groom expect an amazing photo shoot but reality is different.
In recent years the trend of professional photography is increasing in Pakistan. There is a similar trend in Indian society.
The photo shoot experience for guests is also awkward, especially when the video maker takes close shots when they are busy enjoying the food.
There is another reality which is revealed to all desi girls at an early age that their mother takes wedding events as matchmaking events to find the best son-in-law. Traditional this technique have been very successful.
It is only after the marriage date is fixed that desi Pakistani girls realize that her vocabulary, style and communication need a complete change. It is usually these last months that she is taught to learn ethics from how to talk with your husband to how to treat your in laws.
No matter if you are a Punjabi desi girl or someone from Karachi, either you have experienced some of these things or you will face them in future.