Darul Iftah of Jamia Binoria received a question that whether it is allowed for a husband to movie into their wife parent’s house or can a husband be ‘Joro ka Ghulam’.
Mufti responded that husband is not allowed to do anything which will be considered a compromise on his respect and which reflects subordination to wife.
In Pakistan many well off families doesn’t want their daughters to move into other families so what they do is they arrange a marriage with a financially weak person and incorporate them in family business and by moving the son in law into their family.
But it has been observed that such husbands are subordinates to their wife & their parents. Such husbands have no say into their own family matters and wife treats them as a servant.
It is not a good situation because marriage is based on love, respect and corporation where a husband is the leader, disturbing it only spoils the relation.